Our Hotwives

Married for 30 years. Like many of you, my all time favorite fantasy is to watch my wife with another man. Flirting, dancing, kissing, getting massaged or getting fucked, anything. I have recently talked to her about it but she is not open to the idea because she said she would have to have feelings for someone to let them touch her and that would ruin our relationship. She doesn’t understand why I would want anyone to touch her. I did explain to her that it would turn me on seeing her enjoy herself and be pleasured. But she still said she has no interest.
For those of you that have the fantasy but know it just won’t ever happen, how do you satisfy the urge?

I squeeze every ounce of positive signs I get from her and then its fantasy and masturbation and reading this website daily.

I honestly think most of us are born this way. There is usually some catalyst that sets things in motion but we are just born this way. Why does one person like Coke while the other like Pepsi. No explanation other than you just do. For that reason o don’t think it’s something you can just turn off and decide not to let the idea turn you on. Suppressing the desire will only make it stronger.

If she isn’t interested and you love and respect her. You get your kicks where you can. Get any details you can about her past and enjoy them. Get her to play along if you can. Love vicariously through others on here. Fantasize lots and lots.

Massage4Wife72 wrote: ↑

Mon Jan 27, 2025 6:16 am

Why does one person like Coke while the other like Pepsi

Lemon. If you don't like Pepsi better, you may be a pussy ... cat, I mean.

I satisfy my fantasy in the videogame Sims 4 with the mod WickedWhims, where I can create any cuckold scenario I dream of, I even created a story about my fantasy, if someone is interested in watching it here is the first episode: https://www.xvideos.com/video.uiomldhf0 ... rst_steps_ and here are all the videos I have made so far: https://guiascornudismo.blogspot.com/20 ... 2da3320f63, I'm always working on the next episode, I can create any wild cuckold scenario I want, that is how I satisfy my cuckold fantasy.

Combination of factors as Im still a Wanna be.

For me a lot of it is things that have happened to me pre-marraige. I was cheated on in a prior serious relationship. This lead to an 'open relationship' which was essentially me being cuckolded. I could tell stories about her sexcapades for hours.

Also, my wife, who wont (currently) consider becoming a hot wife has shared stories from a prior serious relationship of hers and also from an affair she had. She is willing, at times to share these stories while I masturbate. She will only tell them as anonymous '3rd person' perspective, not as if its her doing it, especially stories of her affair, but its obvious from the detail that its her.

For me, another big part of my fantasy is when the woman craves a well endowed man and is willing to cheat to get her sexual needs met. I realize that not all women care about size but luckily for me for both my wife and this prior relationship most definitely did. Size is extremely important to them in regard to whether a man can actually satisfy them.

My wife masturbates and I lie next to her. I will rub her back or breast but no words spoken. I only ask her to kiss me when she’s mid orgasm. Those kisses are so powerful. Sometimes she goes right to sleep leaving me feeling cuckolded.

When my wife is into it we will fantasize about a fictional guy named Tristan. When she goes shopping on the weekends she'll go see him, get fucked really well, and come home to tell me all about it. It kinda scratches that hotwife itch, but I am still interested in finding someone for her in real life.

The other thing that helps is dirty talk porn. It's pretty much the only thing I watch. I have written stories on occasion, but I am not that good of an author.

The only way I can satisfy my hotwife fantasy is to imagine my wife behaving is a similar manner to some of the wonderful wives on this site. Sadly, she is not interested in sex with me nor anybody else. However, it is now so long since I had sex with her, that fantasies with her as the star have become as hot as those with gorgeous models or actresses. My latest fantasies are of her finding a lover, then coming home and demanding clean-up from me; unfortunately she will never do it.

My other hotwife fantasy involves my first love who is now divorced and increasing her sexual experiences at quite a rate. In my fantasies with her, I have left my wife and started seeing my first love again, she then agrees to marry me but only if she can cuckold me, with the well-endowed men she has become used to, while I remain totally faithful to her.

There's no shortcut as far as I know. I've been married twice, and still in the second marriage. About 16 years the first, and 12 and counting now. We're in our 50s.

With my first wife, I was lucky enough to have several varied experiences. It taught me a lot. It helped that it happened in my 20s and 30s, so now in my 50s I feel better armed with facts.

How I approach it now, is to first always consider my wife. I know what I'm into, but the challenge is finding what she is into, and how to make those interests intersect. I imagine it's like this for most women, but making my wife feel loved and sexy is the first step. And this isn't something you do once, it's a "long game" sort of thing. Be for her what she wants first.

Hopefully you also have the sort of relationship where you can express yourselves.

Once those are satisfied, you talk about sex. You explain what you're fantasies are. Over time, my wife and I have gotten into a bit of a ritual where we get dressed up a bit and play pool, or games, or hot tub it. It helps to have these things at home of course, but we have a sex night more or less. We discuss sex, it always turns to hotwife sorts of things.

I think it's a matter of time, even in our 50s. If not, well, we still have great sex.

My lady isnt interested in being shared but small step is a little play acting that she has a bf. However, what has worked for me is taki.g a video of us having sex. Then when needed, watch the vid of her and I and imagine/pretend that i am watching her with "another" man in the video. Its me, but pretend its her lover, a person she just met at the bar, the gardner/delivery man, her ex, a secret bf, or what happened during her travels when she had a drink amd met a guy she couldnt resist.
Now, we have over 100 vids. Its especially useful if you vid yourselves while in a hotel. Then, its her having a dalliance while travelling.

Watching her with her dildo and dreaming as it was real.

I’ve bought up threesomes as well as watching my longtime GF get fucked whilst I watch but she’s not in to it at all.

Luckily she’s happy to watch porn when we have sex - and gets super wet when we do - and is OK with me verbalizing my fantasies when we’re fucking.

Often times I’ll sit in a chair by the bed and watch whilst she fucks herself with a dildo & rabbit vibrator or other toys (we’ll have porn on the big screen at the same time I always put threesome MFM porn on ) and I’ll say stuff like “I’m imagining two hot young guys with beautiful big cocks fucking you right now whilst I sit here and stroke my dick” and will go in to more detail or I’ll say “ I wish you were the chick in this porn right now “ etc and she’s OK with it - and sometimes gets pretty turned on by it - so I count myself lucky there.

Sometimes she tells me to STFU but that’s OK. I’m actually at a point where I think the fantasy of it maybe better than if we actually did it. Of course if she ever actually did want to I’d be on it in a heartbeat!!

There are two main ways for me:-
1. I write stories which involve my shy, conservative wife finding that yes, she would like to widen her experience (I am the only man she has slept with).
2. In real life she's clear that she won't be shared, but fortunately she is willing to role play scenarios - alone in the house with a tradesman, returning home after a girls night out where she lets someone pick her up and fuck her etc. Not surprisingly I would do role playing more frequently than suits her. I've learnt not to overdo it or her interest wanes and that makes it much less interesting.

I've been with my wife for over 30 years and she would never agree to cuck me, so fantasies are all I have. A more recent one involves a bull from this site, who I believe lives just a few hours away. He is much bigger than me; both longer and much much thicker. The fantasy involves me persuading my wife to let him visit for a night to see if she likes him; obviously she does and between him and me we managed to talk her into it.
I imagine laying next to her the first time he slowly eases his massive cock into her. I watch her face as she gasps and groans as loud as she once did years ago when I was at my best. However, as he gets deeper she gets even louder and wilder; I have never seen her cum so hard. When they finally finish, about 30 minutes later, he rolls off her and she is totally exhausted; she looks over at me and beckons me closer with her finger: “That was the best I've ever had” she pants, “You know how our new friend is spending the night in the spare room? Well I want you to sleep there and he can stay with me tonight so I can get some more of this”.
The dice is cast, he visits most weekends and she eventually denies me access to her pussy, except with my tongue.

Wife and I have been married 50+ years. First and only marriage for us. Several years ago we discussed expanding our play to include another gentleman to spice things up. Never happened, though the talk went on. She is too influenced by social and religious indoctrination. I have been writing an ongoing story about her and another man in which I am cuckolded. The scenes are quite explicit and generates arousal for her. In time, I've expanded the story to include others (her girlfriends) that are more adventurous than she is. The tale continues to evolve and serves to excite her. But it hasn't convinced her to try anything... yet.

davecarnality wrote: ↑

Fri Feb 28, 2025 5:55 am

Wife and I have been married 50+ years. First and only marriage for us. Several years ago we discussed expanding our play to include another gentleman to spice things up. Never happened, though the talk went on. She is too influenced by social and religious indoctrination. I have been writing an ongoing story about her and another man in which I am cuckolded. The scenes are quite explicit and generates arousal for her. In time, I've expanded the story to include others (her girlfriends) that are more adventurous than she is. The tale continues to evolve and serves to excite her. But it hasn't convinced her to try anything... yet.

Sounds like a good plan, especially as she seems somewhat receptive to it; fingers crossed it may work out for you one day. Sadly, mine would not take the time to read anything like that which I may have written. For my own amusement I often save some of the more stimulating stories from the Internet - real or otherwise, then change the names to our own; she would go ape if she ever read them

I am lucky that my wife is an exhibitionist and a flirt. I am a photographer, and I end up with lots of suggestive pics of my wife flirting. I build mental stories around those. Lately, I have been having fun using ChatGPT. I prompt it with true things my wife has told me, and I build out a story from there. Every once in a while, my wife will roleplay with me, and she cheated on me a few times, and will toss me a tidbit every now and then.

She tells me stories while we have sex or while she blows me, we read erotica and we share her pictures on Reddit and here… it works for now!